Siz guvohi bo'lgan "sirg'alarimni ushlab turing" ning eng yaxshi holati nima??
I had a friend from Ghana as well as a friend from Spain. Both were living in close quarters together. The friend from Spain kept walking around with this feisty attitude. For some reason, she wanted everyone around her to think she was tough. She was 5'3, petite and was raised in a literal church back in her country. My friend from Ghana was 5'11, had a thick frame, but she was all muscle. She was raised in the hood. Ghana was very street smart. She was also highly motivated, muvaffaqiyatli, and sweet as could be. Why Spain wanted to mess with her is beyond me.
All I know is that they ended up in the hallway of the transitional house I was living in at the time. Suddenly I hear raised voices and I'm like, "nima gaplar?“Men juda qiziquvchan odamman va vaqti-vaqti bilan boshimni tashqariga qaratishimga hech narsa xalaqit bermadi. Qo'shimcha, Ganalik qizimni juda hurmat qilardim...
Gana halqali sirg'a kiygan edi, u ofisda uzoq kun ishlagandan kiyingan edi. U endigina o‘g‘lini bog‘chadan olgan edi. U kechki ovqat tayyorlashga tayyorlanayotgan edi va juda charchagan edi. Uning Ispaniyaning g'alati ishlariga vaqti yo'q edi. Ispaniya bu nuqtada uning yuziga sakrab tushadi, har xil gaplarni gapirish.
Xudoga qasamki, Gana halqali sirg'alarni olib tashlashga tayyor edi. Unga yetarli edi. Gana hech qachon o'zini yo'qotmagan. Ispaniya uning teri ostiga tushgan bo'lsa kerak, balki u og'ir kunni o'tkazgandir, lekin Gana, agar xodimlar aralashmaganida, o'sha erda Ispaniyani siqib chiqargan bo'lardi.
Gana ohangidagi ogohlantirish, men u shunchaki Ispaniyaga o'xshab gapirmaganligini aytishim mumkin edi.. U, albatta, o'z vaqtida bir necha kaput kalamush sakrab edi.
Men zo'ravonlik hech qachon yaxshi deb aytmayman. Emas. Bu oxir-oqibatda ko'proq tartibsizlikni keltirib chiqaradi. Bu nafratning to'lib ketishiga olib keladi. Odamlarni ajratadi. Ispaniya buni talab qildi. Shaxsan men Gananing bir necha kun davomida jahli chiqqaniga guvoh bo'lganman. Ispaniya, agar ular bir xonada bo'lsalar, ispan tilida qandaydir yomon narsalarni g'o'ldiradilar. U bir qadam bilan qadam tashlab yurdi. Uning barcha harakatlari va ustunlik munosabati: u hammadan yaxshiroq edi, u xohlagan narsasini qila olishi uchun, u "uni kaltaklashini aytdi(Gana) yuqoriga".
U butun qarama-qarshilikdan keyin Gana unga biror narsa qilishidan qo'rqqanini tan olish uchun xodimning oldiga bordi. . Ispaniya o'zi uchun bu qayg'uga sabab bo'ldi. Siz o'zingiz xohlagan odam bilan gaplasha olmaysiz yoki yomon gapira olmaysiz va ular Gana singari sizga qarshi kelishlarini kutmaysiz..
Men qanchalik “qattiq” ekanligimdan maqtanmoqchi emasman" mening do'stim Gana edi. Hammamiz yomon vaziyatlardan kelib chiqqanmiz. Gana shunchaki hech kimni yomon ko'rmaydigan odam edi. U o'zini himoya qilishni erta o'rgandi.