Sizning bolaligingiz sirg'alarini xohlaganida nima qilasiz?
O'ylaymanki, bu butunlay ota-ona sifatida sizga bog'liq. Senchi(ota-onalar) bu masala bo'yicha o'ziga xos nuqtai nazarga ega. Ba'zi ota-onalar yosh bolalar uchun amaliy sabablarga ko'ra rozilikdan qochishni xohlashadi. Pirsingni tozalash va boshqarish bir necha hafta davomida biroz hushyorlik va g'amxo'rlikni talab qiladi va kichik bolalar bu vazifani bajara olmaydilar. - shuning uchun agar sizda pirsdan keyingi parvarish bilan bog'liq muammo bo'lmasa, unda muammo nimada.
Sport bilan shug'ullanadigan yosh bolalar uchun (ayniqsa o'g'il bolalar) yirtilib ketish xavfi ayniqsa kontaktli sport turlarida juda katta, shuning uchun qaror qabul qilishdan oldin buni ko'rib chiqishingiz mumkin.
Agar farzandingiz boradigan maktabda zargarlik buyumlarini kiyish siyosati mavjud bo'lsa, har qanday yo'l bilan qaror qabul qilishdan oldin buni ko'rib chiqishingiz mumkin..
Shuni ta'kidlash kerakki, men bu erda aniq sabablarga ko'ra ataylab jinsga murojaat qilmaganman.
O'ylaymanki, hozir biz hammamiz bilamizki, har qanday turdagi zargarlik buyumlarini kiyish endi faqat bitta jins tomonidan cheklanmagan yoki afzal ko'rilmagan..
Piercings are also no longer reserved for or preferenced by only one gender - despite the fact that there are still some communities who discourage this practice for one gender.
Some families also discourage all forms of piercings for one or both genders on various grounds from tradition to religion and pretty much everything in between.
So ultimately the decision rests with you - the parent(s). What is your position on whether your child should or shouldn't wear earrings. What are your concerns regarding your child's image, personal family brand/name, will it affect your child's reputation. Why does your child want earrings - is it merely to follow a current fashion trend, peer pressure, or any other reason.
Whether you consent or not is up to you, your house, your child, your rules. However think about whether your child is pushing your buttons just because they can to see what your reaction is going to be. Are they reinforcing a belief they have that says “I am not allowed to make any decisions for myself OR my folks don't trust me OR I will simply be bullied into submission with a flat out No without any discussion.
Remember this may not actually be about the earings. It may well be the beginning of a trend in behaviour that is being used to establish whether or not you are willing to negotiate on issues or bully into submissive compliance.
This is certainly one of those decisions you may want to choose carefully on. A tradeoff here may serve you well down the line. Bu erda qattiq chiziq kelajakdagi shunga o'xshash munozaralar uchun ohangni belgilashi mumkin.
Boshqa tomondan, bu sizning kichkina qizingiz o'sib ulg'aygan va kichkina malika kabi ko'rinishni xohlashi mumkin.