Care este cel mai bun caz de „ține-mi cerceii” moment la care ai fost martor?
I had a friend from Ghana as well as a friend from Spain. Both were living in close quarters together. Prietenul din Spania a continuat să se plimbe cu această atitudine înflăcărată. Din anumite motive, she wanted everyone around her to think she was tough. She was 5'3, petite and was raised in a literal church back in her country. My friend from Ghana was 5'11, had a thick frame, but she was all muscle. She was raised in the hood. Ghana was very street smart. She was also highly motivated, de succes, and sweet as could be. Why Spain wanted to mess with her is beyond me.
All I know is that they ended up in the hallway of the transitional house I was living in at the time. Suddenly I hear raised voices and I'm like, “what's up?” I'm a very nosy person and nothing kept me from peeping my head out every now and then. Plus, I had so much respect for my gal from Ghana already…
Ghana was wearing hoop earrings, she was all dressed up from working a long day at the office. She had just picked up her son from daycare. She was getting ready to make dinner and tired as all hell. She did not have time for Spain's antics. Spain by this point is jumping in her face, talking all kinds of shit.
I swear to God Ghana was ready to remove those hoop earrings. She had enough. Ghana was not one to ever lose her cool. Spain must have gotten under her skin, maybe she was having a rough day, but Ghana would have popped Spain right there had the staff not intervened.
Just the warning in Ghana's tone never mind the fact that I could tell she wasn't just talk like Spain. Cu siguranță sărise niște șobolani cu glugă în zilele ei.
I'm not saying violence is ever okay. It's not. Creează mai mult haos în cele din urmă. Provoacă un debordare de ură. Împarte oamenii. Spania o cerea. I'd personally witnessed Ghana's temper just building up for days. Spania ar mormăi ceva urât în spaniolă dacă ar fi în aceeași cameră. Ea a mers cu o năvală în pas. Toate acțiunile ei și atitudinea ei de superioritate: că ea era mai bună decât toți ceilalți, că putea face tot ce voia, că ea „o bate(Ghana) Sus".
Ea a mers la un membru al personalului pentru a mărturisi cât de speriată i-a fost că Ghana i-ar face ceva după toată confruntarea lor. . Spania și-a provocat această durere. You can't just fuck with whoever you want or talk shit and not expect them to come at you in the way Ghana did.
I'm not trying to gloat about how “tough" prietenul meu Ghana a fost. Toți venim din situații proaste. Ghana was just the type who did not take anyone's shit. Ea a învățat devreme cum să se apere.